Friday, November 30, 2007

Thoughts on a simpler Christmas...

...from two wise bloggers!

Rhonda Jean from Down To Earth shares some common sense about Christmas spending, while Patty from Morning Ramble offers her simple thoughts for de-stressing Christmas.

I agree! Due to our method of buying all year long from unconventional sources, we are rarely pinched for time or money this time of year.

Where I feel the Christmas pressure? In being the chief provider of all family memories and traditions. It's a big job!

Raw materials

I picked up a 59-cent bag of yarn yesterday, little snippets of wool I suspect were leftover from various embroidery projects. Perhaps we would glue them on black construction paper.

Little did I know that a yarn scraps could entertain two kids for over 3 hours.

First we had to run our fingers through the pile. "I like the way my hands feel."


We ate a spaghetti supper, then molded our leftovers into cake-shaped desserts and ice cream swirls.

Next, a fashion show, with Andrew sporting a wig and Elise draping strands of color all over her shoulders, running to the mirror, giggling.


Finally, to the business of sorting. Elise called it all "geen, geen, geen," while bossy Andrew insisted that there was light green, army green, and Christmas tree green.

Oh, and a stray strand of embroidery floss that was "as fine as a princess dress. You can have that one."

These mother moments, they are sweet. And we haven't yet begun to glue.

Thursday, November 29, 2007

A few of my favorite things

We're delivering an early Christmas to family heading out of town for the month.

Wearing: a sweet smocked candy cane outfit, 99-cents.
Wrapping: two small treasures in free luminaria bags.
Baking: pound cake made festive with recycled gift ribbon.

(Could I possibly have squeezed one more bow into this photo? )

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Lunch with the Coupon Queen

Yesterday a fellow Frugal Hacker was passing through town. I was lucky to have her stop by my house for lunch. Gina blogs at Six In The Country, where she writes about everyday life from a frugal perspective.

(She's the notorious blogger who challenged "the cheapest family in America" and received a response from Steve and Annette Economides in the comments.)

I think Gina's hiding her light under a bushel. She is so modest about her amazing grocery skills, you might not even know she's a moderator at two money-saving forums.

Her daughter told me about the family that loved Gina's banana butter so much, they hid it from one another and ate it in the bathroom....with a spoon. How's that for a reduced-for-quick-sale produce rescue?

And the coupons. Oh, the coupons. Gina is a walking, talking Coupon Queen of the first order, with a mental price list of every grocery deal in our region. Not only did she show me her professionally labeled coupon binder, she let me peek at the free bottles of Dawn boxed in her trunk. (She combined Kmart's in-store clearance with 50-cent off coupons.)

Gina has developed a second source of income passing along her grocery deals to friends. She is able to pay for her own family's food and then some.

Less than an hour later I grabbed a few extra coupons from the neighborhood recycling bin. After my lesson with Gina, I'm ready to shop Harris-Teeter in earnest!

Serving salad

I was never so excited about salad servers than the day I found this blue-and-white handled pair at Thrift Smart!

Here's a question for readers who make their own salad dressings. How do you serve them at table?
  • Do you toss the entire salad with dressing before serving? The vinaigrette ruins the possibility of leftovers, doesn't it?
  • What container do you put the dressing in? How do you keep it properly mixed throughout the meal? (As you can see, I resorted to a salad fork in the pitcher.)
  • Do you offer a choice of homemade dressings, and if so, how do you present them?

I won't be shocked if you put the bottles on the table. I just want to know the logistics!

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Spanish dancer

While I've given away most of Andrew's outgrown clothing, I saved the quality toddler snow clothes.

These blue jackets and hats are in stark contrast to the rest of her ruffles and bows, though. That's why I was so tickled to find this little knit flower pin for 10-cents at a yard sale last week.

What do you think? Does the blossom look out of place, or pleasingly pink?

Monday, November 26, 2007

Green Christmas

We don't start hanging the greens until after the Army-Navy Game, but my mind's been hard at work.

We've decked our halls with rich colors, needlepoint stockings, and blown glass ornaments the last few years. After admiring Pottery Barn's pale greens and whites, I walked into Walmart...only to be greeted by a giant tree covered with chartreuse globes. Call me trendy, but I'm ready to lighten and brighten our look.

I can't afford to replace what few decorations I own. I'll have to find a fresh take, free of cost. I'm starting with this green bridge cloth, which we bought as a gift for my late grandmother-in-law. It might look good angled across the table, with a centerpiece of citrus fruit.

In the meantime, I'll be busy scavenging for more light green and yellow accents: in my gift closet, in the rag bag, and outdoors.

Do you change your holiday decorating from year to year? If so, how do you do it on a budget?

Mrs. Meyer's Free Shipping

If you have to mail gifts, you may spend less money by buying them pre-made. Today Mrs. Meyer's offers free shipping, even on single items as inexpensive as $5.

There go my big plans for a body scrub assembly line!

*I also have a new column up at Frugal Hacks. Today we're discussing fabulous packaging for your frugal gifts.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Make your own sugar scrub

I wouldn't call myself crafty. I am, however, on a perpetual quest for homemade gifts that I would actually like to receive.

When Jeana shared her success with homemade sugar scrub, I knew I'd have to try it.

I'm too afraid to use glass near bathtubs, so I substituted a plastic peanut butter container for Jeana's mason jar.

The only problem? Skippy's imprinted top, unlike the plain Kroger variety. Darn coupons!

I wiped the cap with the only paint I had and cut a magazine photo to cover the logo.

I am usually too cheap to follow recipes the way they are written. I didn't have baby oil, so I substituted vegetable oil. I omitted the aloe altogether:
  • 4 cups sugar
  • 1 cup vegetable oil
  • 4 tsp. imitation vanilla

If you bought sugar, vegetable oil, and imitation vanilla at Walmart, $6 would make about 10 cups (at sixty cents a cup). Holiday-sale-priced baking goods would cut your expenses even further.

The sugar scrub works just as well as Jeana says and smells even better. I dressed the container with a 25-cent spoon for stirring and a recycled ribbon. Gold looks beautiful with this light brown scrub.

A nice gift on its own, this sugar scrub would be even more special when paired with a few plush facecloths from Big Lots or an inexpensive magazine subscription from Ebay.

I think you could also alter the fragrance by adding lemon or almond extract or even leftover coffee grounds.

The peanut butter jar is a little too big and a little too unshapely for my eye, though. Does anyone have suggestions for a smaller plastic container and lid to recycle?

Apple cheddar cheese ball

I packed a small cheese ball as a token gift for my uncle's birthday. Like I always say, cheese and nuts are perfect for the man who has everything, particularly if there is a football game on television later that afternoon.

This cheese ball uses a paprika coating and cinnamon stem for an apple that fools the eye. The sharp cheddar taste is best served with sliced apples in addition to crackers.

I pick up these wicker plate holders at yard sales, never paying more than 10-cents apiece. They make giving food gifts so easy and attractive!

Unexpected leave

Sorry! Didn't mean to be gone so long. I developed bronchitis the same week I eased Elise out of nursing (and you know what that feels like).

I was so miserable that I didn't even take photos of the best Thanksgiving turkey I've ever roasted! I used my thrifted Romertopf clay baker, which cooked a 12-lb. bird in 2-1/2 hours at 400 degrees. Moist, flavorful, golden-crispy skin--with leftovers so good, I don't even want to reincarnate them as a casserole.

Hope you've had a great holiday! Expect our regular routine to resume (with photos!) tomorrow.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Packaging play dough

I packaged half of the homemade pumpkin pie play dough in the leftover pie tin (click link for detailed instructions). I was out of plastic wrap, so I used the cellophane from a cracker box instead. I think we'll deliver it to the family next door.

Pilgrim lunch

Today we enjoyed a more authentic Thanksgiving meal, one without all the Victorian-era trimmings of dressing, potatoes, and cranberry sauce

The Pilgrims would have eaten stewed pompion (pumpkin), but there was no flour or sugar left for pies, let alone an oven for baking them. Scholastic has more information about historically accurate Pilgrim food and customs.

We let the kids eat outdoors on wooden bowls and baskets and without utensils.We tasted bean soup, venison jerkey, dried cranberries, strawberries, and cornbread, with imitation crab legs in lieu of eels, clams, and lobster. We did opt for pumpkin pie instead of stewed squash, though!

Pumpkin pie playdough recipe

In checking my baking supplies for the holiday sales, I found an very old bottle of pumpkin pie spice and some cream of tartar leftover from my trip to the Mennonite market.

Don't you just love Google? Within minutes I found a cool recipe for homemade pumpkin pie playdough from this site:

5 1\2 Cups Flour
2 Cups Salt
8 teaspoons Cream of Tartar
3\4 Cup Oil
1 Container (1 1\2 ounces) Pumpkin Pie Spice
4 Cups Water
(I omitted the yellow and red food coloring.)

The original instructions were unclear. I combined all the ingredients (more or less) in a medium saucepan, stirring at medium heat. The mixture will begin to clump. Keep stirring.

Remove from heat when the mixture changes from a batter-with-lumps consistency to something that looks like brown sugar and/or peanut butter. Pour onto floured surface to cool. Ours was still sticky in places, but kneading with additional flour evened the texture.

The recipe makes enough to fill a 1/2 gallon ice cream carton (or its Tupperware equivalent.)

This was my first successful attempt at cooked playdough, and I was very pleased with its smooth feel. And the smell? Heavenly! Make sure you have some real pumpkin pie for later.

You can see how I packaged the playdough for giving here.

More recipes and neat ideas at Shannon's Works-For-Me-Wednesday!

Monday, November 19, 2007

Thanksgiving centerpiece

I've had a few requests for frugal Thankgiving centerpieces. To me, that means a project that doesn't entail a trip to Michaels!

I wanted to make a cornucopia with the kids. You can do this with a brown paper shopping bag and a clay pot. Only, since going to cloth bags, I no longer had any paper on hand!

I substituted the last of a wrapping paper roll instead.

Unfold your shopping bag or square of paper and roll it around the pot.

This naturally makes a cone shape at the end, which you can bend and twist for a more basket-like texture. You may find it easier to wrinkle a brown paper bag if you scrunch it before wrapping.

Gather all your materials. How I wish I hadn't thrown away those miniature gourds! I had to raid the refrigerator for a few apples, an orange, and a handful of old limes.

The kids gathered clusters of fall leaves in red, yellow, and brown. I may add a few roses from Aldi, so I jammed two blocks of wet floral foam in the pot. Dollar General sells 3 bricks for $1.

If you're using only leaves and produce, substitute styrofoam or twist a "nest" of twigs and branches for framework.

The fun part! Insert branches, making a lion's mane of leaves around the opening. Add some long trailing pieces on the bottom.

You don't need floral picks or wire to add fruit or vegetables to an arrangement. Have the kids bring you a few sticks, break in half for a sharp point, then push into the bottom of the fruit.

Leave the sticks longer if you want the fruit to stick out farther, for instance, at the base. See the brown stick from the apple poking into the foam?

I prefer a large scale arrangement, since we serve food from a buffet. Careful not too make your centerpiece taller than the eye level of a sitting guest.

I was going to have Andrew sponge paint the wrapping paper brown, but now I like the contrast of the gold paper against the table.

Those of you in Florida will have to cut paper leaves, unless you do a tropical cornucopia with beautiful citrus and palm fronds! You might also enjoy Home Ec 101's paper pumpkin centerpiece--it's filled with dinner mints.

Readers make their own:

Thanksgiving-all-week menu

We'll be attending a large family Thanksgiving, but my husband misses the leftovers. Last year I ended up cooking an entire second meal. Whew!

This year, I'm planning a Thanksgiving-All-Week menu. Each day will feature one or two Thanksgiving favorites. I have to cook on those days, anyway, so why not spread the holiday love? Saves money, saves time, saves energy!

Monday: 59-cents/lb roast turkey with green bean casserole and canned cranberry sauce
Tuesday: "authentic" Thanksgiving meal with cornbread, dried fruit, beans, baked squash
Wednesday: small spiral sliced ham (99-cents/lb), sweet potato casserole
Thursday: bringing steamed asparagus and cheese ball to family gathering
Friday: fresh rolls for turkey sandwiches and assorted leftovers

For once I have a menu worthy of OrgJunkie's Menu Plan Monday!

New valances

I found some valances for Elise's room at Goodwill, perfect for covering the hardware on her secondhand wood blinds.

The fabric is near perfect, color-wise; the stripe and flowers have more of an orange tone than pure pink. Her crib has a green toile skirt.

The valances have tiny metal rings sewn at intervals, perhaps to run along a thin dowel. I didn't want to buy any hardware, so I tacked white finish nails under the molding instead.

Much needed softness in a fairly spare room. $16 for four valances.

Friday, November 16, 2007

Friday night favorites

The guys are watching Spiderman, so I'm puttering around the kitchen enjoying a few favorite finds:

--processing the cookie tray leftovers to save for a gingersnap crust (or five)

--admiring this .65 cent handpainted boutique dress (all baby clothes half price at a local thrift)

--getting to "meet" Apron Thrift Girl in her YouTube debut, Debunking 7 Thrift Myths

(The embedding code disrupted my layout, so you'll have to click to her site to watch.)

Can't beat yard sales

I'm so spoiled by yard sale prices, I almost can't buy things in stores. One quick stop netted the following:

  • These suede pumps have a pretty lace and heel, perfect for a Thanksgiving paisley skirt.
  • Red tin sized well for nuts and brown mailing envelopes.
  • Treating myself: an unopened jar of boutique hand cream, 5 cents.

Why didn't I think of that?

I know a certain 5-year-old who will be getting a "write your own books" box for Christmas!

More gift list thoughts

Nissa at Simple Gifts is drafting a thoughtful letter to her friends and family, with "Simple Christmas" gift suggestions. It honors their family ethic, while still listing concrete and useful items. Worth a look!

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Impromptu--but inexpensive--table

I had to set up refreshments for a meeting tonight, with only a couple of hours notice. Are you curious how it turned out?

I spent $16 on 4 cases of bottled waters, $11 on fruit, $8 on crackers and $8 on cookies. Everything else was reused or free.

I re-purposed a beige king-size coverlet for the tablecloth. Then I layered a remnant of upholstery fabric on top, with a red and yellow tapestry runner twisted between the baskets.

My husband knew I wouldn't be able to stand the giant blue Pepsi coolers, so he found a piece of red butcher paper to camoflage the logo.

I lined two handmade baskets (50-cents each) with oversize squares of batik, trimmed with those trusty pinking shears.

(Bonus points to anyone who recognizes this fabric from my old dining room chairs!)

My sand-in-a-summer-pot centerpiece came along. I gathered some roadside red-leaved branches and chartreuse leaves on the way there.

The $2 bag of decorative gourds has been a good investment. I pierced a few with sharp sticks, elevating them above the sand. Hydrangeas dried from my brother's September party filled the gaps.

Nothing spectacular, but it came together so easily, with so many yard sale finds, I just had to share.

Anna Maria on Martha Stewart

I am taking a quick break to watch one of my city's own bloggers, Anna Maria Horner, demonstrate her craftiness extraordinaire...on MARTHA STEWART!

Meanwhile, my own heart is racing a million beats a minute. My husband just called from work.

"There's a meeting tonight for 50 to 100 people. We just found out that refreshments were part of the agreement. Could you pick up cases of bottled water, individually packaged snacks, something to cover the buffet table and a centerpiece?"

Even though it's not "my" money I'm spending, I still can't stand to overpay. I think Big Lots may be my best budget option without driving to a Sam's Club.

Gobble, Gobble: Coconut Pound Cake

Karla is hosting Gobble, Gobble The Good Stuff to collect those special holiday recipes.

I thought I'd share today's contribution to the Thanksgiving potluck at my husband's workplace, for which I was asked to bring a cake.


The baking project turned out like so many of my frugal experiments do: "not as directed," but in a good way.

The Asian market had fresh coconuts for fifty cents apiece. No time for a fluffy layer cake, though. With Bundt pan and laptop on the countertop, I Googled coconut pound cake recipes.

Low on butter? Try this Crisco version. No coconut extract? I substituted vanilla plus the coconut cream in the batter. Then I replacing the glaze's water with coconut milk. For decoration, I shredded some of the coconut meat with leftover chopped pecans. The remaining coconut meat goes into the freezer for another day.

As you can see, a little "mouse" couldn't help but nibble some of the crust when my back was turned. Oh, well. He reports that it was very, very good.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Cheaper pumpkin pie

My neighborhood Walmart has bakery pies priced only $2.50 apiece this week. That makes a home-baked version using kid-friendly canned ingredients about the same, provided you use generic ingredients. The 69-cent pumpkin at Aldi made my total cost less than I expected.

Ingredients from Aldi:
can of pumpkin $.69
evaporated milk $.69
2 eggs .25
frozen pie crust .60
sugar plus spices .25 (?)

or about $2.50 for each pie, plus electricity and cleanup. (This cost would be almost doubled if using Libby pumpkin, Carnation milk and Pillsbury pie crust.)

Amy Dacyzyn's The Tightwad Gazette includes an in-depth study of pumpkin pies. She freezes cooked pumpkin for all kinds of uses, including pre-made mini pumpkin pies for lunchboxes. True tightwads will look there first.

Of course, I could have easily make our two pies cheaper by:

The object of this lesson is to let my 5 year old assemble an important part of this week's potluck, while I am busy cooking the other 3 items we have to bring places!

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

How to bake pumpkin pie

Tomorrow my 5 year old bakes his first pumpkin pie. We need 2 for a potluck, and I thought it was worth the added cost to bake them from scratch.

Don't worry--I'm not going to go wild and buy the brand name ingredients! In case Aldi's canned pumpkin didn't have the recipe on its label, I double-checked Libby's Pumpkin Pie online.

Wow! Libby's offers 3 free baking tutorial videos: pumpkin pie, pie crust, and pumpkin roll (along with FAQ questions about the recipes.) Did you know a whisk is the recommended utensil for stirring pumpkin pie? A mixer can overbeat the batter.

Gift storage

Q: How do you store wrapped packages so they don't get wrinkled and crushed?

A: I use one of my laundry corner's cabinets to hold paper, cards, ribbon and shipping supplies. I usually wrap the packages atop my dryer. When I'm done, I stack the packages on top of the cabinets until shipping time. The bows will likely get flattened in shipping, but there's only so much I can do about that!

I realized it made no sense to have a gift closet and wrapping paper in separate storage. Now, if I find a complete gift, I go ahead and wrap it immediately. Saves so much space!

Library Bag: The Rag Coat

Sometimes it's difficult to explain poverty--or the importance of charity--to children. Good books can bridge that gap of understanding.

I've tried to highlight every good children's book I've found on this subject. Thanks to the readers who recommended The Rag Coat by Lauren Mills.

The narrator is an Appalachian girl who can't afford the coat she needs to attend school; her beautiful patchwork solution is made fun of by the other students. The Rag Coat's charming illustrations and snowy setting make it a great family read-aloud before gathering your outgrown coats for a winter clothing drive.


From the archives, other children's books related to thrift and/or scarcity of resources:
Elizabeti's Doll
Joseph Had A Little Overcoat
The Ox Cart Man
The Hundred Dresses

Vintage purchase

Don't you just love those little old lady thrift stores, where every scrap of ribbon is carefully folded and tagged .05?

I don't know which tickled me more: this 25-cent book on Christmas Decorations from the Williamsburg Folk Art Collection or the blue Woolworth bag the clerk slipped it in.

(The Williamsburg book looks to be a great source for simple nature ornaments and animal patterns, should you ever run across a copy.)

Monday, November 12, 2007

Buying better gifts

If an unappreciated gift falls into a spare closet, does it make a sound?

You might just kick me out of the frugal club. In today's column at Frugal Hacks, I discuss gift giving--and why some handmade gifts may be a waste of our time and energy.

Monday meanderings

Is it cheaper to shred your own cheese? Journey To Simplicity does the math. Thanks to Dewey's Treehouse for the introduction.

No money, no problem? Carrien gives us a stern talk about cost and nutrition, one I needed to hear.

Storybook Woods creates the prettiest bake sale packaging I've ever seen.

Red Hen Studios sewed game bags out of old suede pants.

If you're still looking for things you can make for Christmas, don't miss The Loveliness of Handmade Gifts fair, held at one of my all-time favorite blogs, By Sun and Candlelight.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

2007 Christmas card

At 59-cents for each box of Marcel Schurman cards, I can hardly justify making my own. Again.

Saturday, November 10, 2007

Holiday check list

We toured our first Christmas display this weekend! Time for me to compile the season's checklist. I'm not much of a listmaker, but details forgotten can dash the holiday budget. Peek at my to-do's, and let me know what's left on yours.

Online blogger coffee, part 4

Let's take our cups outside today--too beautiful to blog indoors.

At our real blogger coffee, I was curious if people have set goals for their blogs, beyond the reason they started blogging in the first place.

Have you thought about starting a meme or carnival, like Karla's Gobble Gobble, or do you make it a point to participate in well-established sites? Do you have a strategy for increasing readership? Or does any of that matter to you at all?

*I have talked myself out of the blogging-about-blogging site. I don't have a very good track record with side blogs, and this is a season I should devote to my family. Right?

Recuperating

First the kids were sick, now I am. As you can see, they've been left to their own devices. I hate to think how many dustpans of paper scraps we'll empty when this is all over!

Remember how long I've waited for Miss Potter at the library? It couldn't have come at a better time.

Thursday, November 08, 2007

Blogger coffee, part 3

Yawn! Anyone like a cup of decaf before bed? How 'bout a butter wafer on the side? No?
As we swept up the crumbs in the post-party quiet, Christy wondered if more bloggers are introverts than extroverts. If so, are the most popular bloggers also the extroverts among us? Or do you think the Internet enables even the shyest to adopt a more outgoing personality?

Quick, cheap, easy color

I was running low on energy and funds before last week's coffee. I just couldn't get my winter pots planted in time.

Instead, I stuffed a $1.17 six-pack of pansies in this basket at the front door. The thin plastic makes a six-pack flexible enough for most containers, if you are ever in an entertaining pinch.

Welcome home

Sign held over the head as the bus empties.

The family breathes a collective sigh of relief.